Meeting people at a business or networking event feels pretty easy when you’ve already gotten past the fear of rejection of talking to beautiful women who could reject you.) Write down a list of 5 places you could go to meet compatible women. I want you to now imagine a girl or woman you have a crush on. Only after we find a girl physically attractive are we open to being even more won over by her personality, common interests, etc. It wired us to be attracted to a women likely to produce healthy kids with great genes.If you’re sitting at home all day, then the rest of this article won’t help you much. I had a couple part time jobs where I met a dozen more. I’m sure you can’t think of a time when a girl you were totally physically not attracted to suddenly won you over with her sense of humour. For example, ever noticed how the woman is almost always a few years younger than the man in any couple? Because a woman who is younger was a lot more likely to have a healthy pregnancy in the distant past. It was true a few thousand and a few million years ago.In all social species with pair-bonds, females are attracted to evidence that males display a chance for power in the community.[…]Humans compete less for territory than for rank.You have to put yourself into situations where you have a chance to come in contact with women. If you don’t have many friends or a social circle, then you’ll have to get some or be proactive in other ways. And that’s when the attraction part of our brain was designed by evolution.
Now here’s where all this science becomes useful to you… What would I even do with a girlfriend if I had one?So for years, I watched from the sidelines as the girls I liked went out with the more popular and confident guys.A woman’s attraction system is triggered by much different things than a man’s.Women are also attracted to indicators that their genes would survive… Here’s how the excellent sexual evolutionary biology book, “It’s Not You, It’s Biology” explains it: In any species that survives by cooperation, stuff is gotten through social power.