If you would like to date someone, you have probably been acquainted with them for awhile or you are taken aback by their beauty and demeanor.If a fear of rejection is stopping you, begin with small talk.I went through all that — for decades, in fact, a period during which I met men I liked and men I didn't.
You haven't yet met your soul mate yet, but you still think dating is fun. At other times the venture seems so mind-boggling you want to hang up your dating pumps for good.Pro You'll have someone other than your buddies to laugh with late at night.Con A late night can be hellish when your date has no sense of humor.As for scenarios 1 and 3, though, I would worry: Walking and holding hands are my idea of heaven.Pro You have someone new to invite to family gatherings. Pro Your grown children will stop bugging you to "get out there and find someone." Con Your grown children will start bugging you about something else — most likely something that involves your faulty parenting from ages ago.